Gay Dating Issues (Not me, My Friends)

So a friend of mine was dating a guy for about a month. They only saw each other twice a week, with one of the days spent overnight.

Recently, my friend asked the guy if he could be a little more responsive to text and e-mail. The guy told him that he was moving too fast.

Too fast? My friend can slept over his place, but if he mention texts and that's too fast? Y'all the game has changed! For those of you who are dating, have you experienced anything like that?

I've been out of the game for some years, but stories like that, scares me. Are men that dysfunctional? Or that f**ked up?

Please tell me there's hope for the single guy out there.